a recovery model built for today
why most programs fail
Porn recovery strategies need a major update because let's face it, most people watch porn "simply" because they're bored.Not anxious, not stressed, not horny - just bored.In other words, if you're watching porn because you just want to 'feel something', you need a modern approach.It used to be that you watched porn because you didn't want to feel anything, now you're watch it because feeling nothing is overwhelming.That's why I created Beneath The Urge - a recovery model built for today.
a porn recovery program built for you.
A fully custom, private, coaching experience that will restore the kind of life you can't lose to a secret habit.
a porn recovery program built for your organization.
A fully custom, turnkey, recovery pathway to launch your own in-house porn recovery ministry without adding to your leadership workload.
i've lived this battle. now i help others win it.
I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Recovery Coach, a leader within my church’s recovery ministry, and the founder of the #1 online community for Christians quitting porn. My work is focused on helping churches build effective, modern pathways for men and women seeking freedom.My own journey shaped the foundation of this model. After finding initial freedom in 2022, I relapsed repeatedly even while doing everything traditional programs told me to do.From there, I rebuilt my recovery from the ground up, integrating the same principles that helped me break free for good to create the Beneath The Urge modern recovery pathway.The same modern, biblically aligned framework that I now install for churches and use to counsel men through my individual 1 on 1 practice.
this is for you if...
You want a private, 1-on-1 path, not another group program.
You want a coach who’s been through the battle, not someone teaching theory.
You’ve tried the usual approaches, and you already know they’re outdated.
You’re a high-performer who can’t afford a hidden habit.
HOW IT WORKS
Your coaching experience is delivered through a clear milestone-based system.Each milestone represents a phase of transformation and you only move forward once you've completed the work required at that level.The program typically lasts 8-12 weeks and includes one 45-minute, private, coaching session per week.Between sessions, you'll receive personalized exercises, behavioral strategies, and spiritual reframes based on what emerges in real time.You'll also have guided check-ins and structured accountability so you never feel like you're figuring it out on your own between calls.Everything is tailored and nothing pre-recorded - I mean, isn't that what Youtube is for?
TOTAL COST: $3,500
"If you think the price of winning is too high, just wait until you get the bill for regret" - Tim Grover
Porn Is the #1 Silent Battle in the Church.
And most leaders don’t have the bandwidth to implement a porn-specific recovery pathway.
INTRODUCING
THE BENEATH THE URGE RECOVERY PATHWAY
HOW IT WORKS
We design your entire porn recovery pathway — curriculum, templates, operations, and leader manuals — so you church doesn’t have to reinvent the wheel.
We train your ministry leaders with real-world scenarios so they know exactly how to shepherd men through modern porn recovery.
You receive the full system, all files, every template, and a clear operational guide so your recovery ministry thrives long after installation.By the end, you will have a fully functioning, culturally aligned porn recovery ministry built from the ground up for your organization that's ready to run.
our vision is to launch 100 in-house
porn recovery programs within Christian organizations by 2030.
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I work one-on-one with each client to ensure the process stays personal and transformative.All current cohorts are closed until January 2026, but if you sense this is the right next step, you can apply below to be notified when space opens.